If you’ve ever found yourself getting frustrated at the possessions lying around your home, been unable to concentrate on a task when surrounded by stuff piled on surfaces, or if you’ve tried to read a book, mediate or have a quiet cup of tea but couldn’t relax until you’d zipped round and tidied up everything first, then you’ve been affected by clutter. I share why I believe that removing clutter from your home is good for your mental health.
I believe that removing clutter from your home is good for your mental health, even if you don’t have that much.
Google says clutter is ‘a collection of things lying about in an untidy state’. Interestingly we’ve used this term increasingly over the last fifty years.
If you’ve ever found yourself getting frustrated at the possessions lying around your home, been unable to concentrate on a task when surrounded by stuff piled on surfaces, or if you’ve tried to read a book, mediate or have a quiet cup of tea but couldn’t relax until you’d zipped round and tidied up everything first, then you’ve been affected by clutter.
Research published in 2011 in the Journal of Neuroscience found that clutter means we have too many stimuli in our environment, which can make it hard to focus.
Humans are innately organised but we all have different styles that determine how we feel about clutter. Clutter can cause stress and lower self-image. It can cause anxiety about how and when we will be able to regain control or how others will perceive us. It can also take us longer to finish simple tasks making us feel incompetent.
According to a Lovespace survey:
a whopping 80% of people in the UK admit their mood is influenced by the state of their house with a less cluttered living space making people much happier!
The good news is, we can maintain a less cluttered home by sorting our things regularly and being more conscious of what we bring into our home.
A good decluttering session can feel quite therapeutic because it:
Creates a sense of confidence as we use our decision-making and problem-solving skills
Creates order and control – we only keep the things we need and have the space to organise them
Gives you feelings of gratitude and abundance – you might find lost things, forgotten treasures, things you can sell or give away. All of which makes you feel that you’ve gained or can benefit others
It can lift the weight of guilt, the feeling that things are left incomplete, makes us feel lighter, freer, calmer and leaves us with a renewed sense of ‘home’
Here are five ideas for maintaining a less cluttered home:
Keep a bag in the boot of your car for charity donations. As you come across something that is no longer needed, pop it in the bag. When it’s full, drop it off at your nearest charity shop
Practice the 1 in 1 out rule – anything new coming into the home has to be exchanged from something that you no longer need or love
Treat pending school holidays, birthdays and Christmas as good opportunities to sort out possessions that can be passed on for others to enjoy
Engage the rest of the household in the benefits of decluttering their own things (they will know where to find what they want and they may even make some money selling old things)
Focus on tackling one room and rotate rooms over the year
So what are waiting for… rally your household, pick a room, put some music on and go for it!
Would you like help getting organised?
If you need guidance, ideas and practical support to make more of your home, organise your possessions in a way that supports your best life or to get started with your decluttering project, then give me a call.
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Do you spend a lot of time on your own? Whatever the reason, it’s important to look after your mental health. Here are my top tips to staying sane.
There are lots of reasons why you may spend a lot of time at home; you might be a full-time Mum, a home-keeper, self-employed, retired, long-term sick or any other reason. But whatever it is, it’s important to look after your mental health and stop the walls from closing in on you. After all, your house should be your home and not your prison.
Being based at home has so many benefits, but it can also have its downsides. It can be lonely, you can feel isolated and if you don’t look after your mental health it can start to get you very down. The more time you spend on you own, the more it can lead you to not wanting to socialise. But humans are pack animals, we need human company to keep us happy, So how do you look after your mental health and keep happy with being at home?
I’m not a mental health expert, but I am someone that has been at home a lot. During my life, I’ve been unemployed, a full-time mum and now I’m self-employed and run my business from my spare room. I also have a mum, who is retired and lives on her own. So, although I’m not an expert, I am someone who understands how important it is to look after your mental health when you spend large periods of time in your home alone. So, I wanted to share my top tips that help me and my mum, to help you stay happy!
My top tips to look after your mental health
Don’t sit in silence – make sure you have background noise of some sort. I tend to have radio 2 quietly babbling away all day, barely loud enough to hear, but the sound of chatter makes me feel like I’m not on my own
Keep in contact – when you feel like you’ve not spoken to anyone all day, you probably haven’t! Pick up the phone and speak to someone.
Get out of the house – First and foremost your house is your home, keep it that way. If it’s starting to feel like a prison you need a change of scenery. Go for a walk, go to a café, visit a friend for coffee – have a change of scenery!
Go for regular walks – It will clear your head and get oxygen into your lungs. It also gives your brain new stimulus by seeing different things to your four walls. And, you never know, you might bump into someone for an impromptu conversation!
Join a group – There are lots of different local groups for different hobbies; singing, keep-fit, golf, art – there is probably something for anything you can think of. Do some research, try your local library and Facebook is a great tool if you know how to use it! If you’re retired, you may want to think about joining the U3A (the University of the Third Age, is for retired and semi-retired people who come together for their educational, social and creative interests).
Set yourself goals – what is it you want to achieve today? Don’t overwhelm yourself, but set yourself an achievable goal and do it. Whether that’s just to go to buy the ingredients for dinner, going for a jog, or clearing the spare room. It doesn’t matter what, but try to achieve something you want to do today.
Don’t despair – feeling isolated comes to us all at times! You just need to find the right way for you to get through it.
I spend my time working with small business and start-ups, many of them are people working on their own and feeling of isolation has affected them all.
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About me: I’m Helen White, mum to 2 beautiful girls and a spritely Jack Russell Terrier. I’m an entrepreneur, expert in business strategy and planning and business-owner of Brilliant Together. If you’d like to find out how Brilliant Together can help you, please get in contact: e-mail us at firstname.lastname@example.org visit our website or follow us on social media: Facebook, LinkedIn, Google+, Twitter