5 Practical Strategies for a Stress-Free Christmas Season

Christmas Calm or Festive Stress?

In the run up to Christmas, do you feel calm and in control, or under pressure to do everything?

Are you looking forward to Christmas as we head into the last months of the year, feeling calm and in control, or are you starting to feel the pressure?

Christmas can be a special time of year where we slow down, recognise the year that has past, give thanks, spend time with family, sing carols, watch favourite movies, eat turkey with all the trimmings, and enjoy cheeky drinks with friends.

It can be exciting, and magical, especially if you have children… but it can also feel very stressful if you are trying to do it all. It’s tempting to feel like we have to create the perfect Christmas for everyone, full of wonderful memories, treats and fun!

If you are trying to do it all, it can feel overwhelming. You deserve to enjoy yourself too, to relax, have a good time and be present to enjoy time with loved ones. You don’t want to reach Christmas Eve frazzled and stressed out!

If you are feeling the pressure, these Christmas preparation tips will help you avoid feeling overwhelmed this season.

5 Practical Christmas Organising Strategies

1. Take a pause!

Doing more and working late into the night may get you there eventually but it will burn you out in the process, making you stressed and taking the enjoyment out of it for you and your family. So make a little time to stop and take a breath, perhaps take yourself off to a café or for a walk so that you can get some headspace. It may feel counter intuitive but pausing will actually make you more focused and productive.

2. Make lists 

Write out of everything that is spinning around in your head; to do lists; gifts lists; Christmas cards to write; events to attend, food shopping – get everything out of your head. Then let it go. You don’t need to remember everything now that’s it’s captured and you can focus on the most important.

Whilst I use my phone a lot, when I feel overwhelmed, I find it helps to write everything down on paper to get it out of my head and keep track of it all.  So I’ve created the Ultimate Calm Christmas planner which includes checklists, key dates and ideas to help you stay organised this Christmas. Download your free copy here.

3. Strategise

It may not be possible to do everything you would like to do in the time available and it will stress you out trying. No-one wants you to reach Christmas a frazzled mess so you need to be strategic. Think carefully about what is most important to you this Christmas – for example, it might be spending time with family, meeting friends, taking a break or making time for community. Now go through your lists and prioritise. Pick out the things that align with what’s most important and down-grade those that don’t – if you don’t get to these it’s ok (cross them off if you are really feeling ruthless!)

The best thing you can do if it all feels overwhelming is stop for a moment. Refocus and think about what’s important. Remember…

‘Less is more’ – Ludwig Mies van der Rohe

4. Be efficient with your time

Block time in your diary for events and meet ups, along with time to shop, cook and take other actions. This will give you visibility so that you can adjust your plans according to your priorities and energy levels.

Save energy by choosing gifts that are easier for you to manage; gift vouchers for experiences and treats that friends and family wouldn’t normally get for themselves. You could bulk-bake biscuits or other treats (handmade goods are always special), send e-cards instead of physical cards or make a donation to charity instead of sending Christmas cards. I share lots of other ideas in my Ultimate Calm Christmas planner).

5. Do it your way

Christmas is a big deal, particularly for retailers; more than 20% of sales are made in the month leading up to Christmas. Marketeers work super hard to sell us the best Christmas décor, foods, gifts, activities and events. But don’t be pressured to do, be and buy everything; create the Christmas that works for you. 

Here’s wishing you a Merry Christmas and happy holidays!

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Autumn Decluttering Made Easy: 9 Practical Tips for Busy Families

Transform your home this Autumn with these quick and easy decluttering tips, perfect for busy families looking to create a calm and cosy space for the colder months ahead!

As the leaves are starting to turn golden and the weather becomes wetter here in the UK, your family will start to spend more time cosying up inside. Autumn is the perfect time to refresh and reorganise your home to ensure that it continues to work for your family over the coming months. For busy families, finding the time to declutter can feel overwhelming. But with a few practical tips, you can transform your living space into a cosy, clutter-free haven. In this blog, I’ll share eight simple and effective decluttering tasks that you can fit into your today-to-day life. You can create a warm and inviting home just in time for the colder months.

It can feel overwhelming when you feel that you have so much to tackle so let’s break down your decluttering efforts into small tasks that you can tackle one step at a time.

9 Practical Tips for Busy Families

1. Start with the Hallway

  • Create convenient homes for heavier coats, boots and umbrellas. Put away light jackets and summer shoes to make space for winter wear
  • Use containers or hang tote bags for easy storage of hats, gloves, and scarves in the entrance of your home so that they are easily available when you leave the house 

2. Kitchen Clear-Out

  • Work your way around your kitchen cupboards. Remove any expired foods or ingredients you no longer use. Dig out any appliances that you no longer use and donate 
  • Organise items that you commonly use together to that they are easily at hand (such as baking ingredients) and consider meal planning to use up short-date items and reduce waste over the longer-term

3. Seasonal Wardrobe Swaps

  • Pack away Summer clothes and bring out Autumn and Winter wear. Your wardrobe can be a great place to start because you can easily identify those items that you won’t wear over the coming months and put them to one side or pack them away to create more space. You may also move a bulky coat to your hallway for regular wear over the cooler months, which will make it easier to see what you have available in your wardrobe
  • Donate or recycle items – quickly filter off items that no longer feel great to wear, don’t fit well, are well worn or just not your taste any more. You don’t have to empty out your entire wardrobe or work through every item to make an impact – when you have little time, you can skim off items that are clearly no use to you and this will make a difference
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4. Tidy Up the Living Room

  • Make space for indoor living – move around your lounge and review any magazines, books, and decorative items you find. Keep only what you use or love, donate the rest
  • Take the opportunity to review DVDs, CDs, computer games and any tech used in this room. Trade or donate anything that your family no longer enjoys

5. Bedroom Refresh

  • You’ve reviewed your wardrobe, now take a look at your bedlinen. Work out how many sets you need and donate or repurpose the excess and older bedding
  • Review surfaces and bedside-table drawers, decluttering things that you don’t need to have by your bed to create a calm sleeping environment

6. Bathroom Blast

  • Quickly go through your bathroom cabinet, clearing out any expired toiletries. Donate any unused products to a charity shop or food bank
  • Organise remaining items by person in containers for easy access. (Just so you know as an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases)

7. Toy Tidy

  • Make tidying toys a family activity. Assign age-appropriate tasks to children to teach them the importance of organisation
  • Micro decluttering sessions are good to help children review their toys (allow them to make decisions about what they no longer play with). Set a timer and plan a little reward to keep everyone motivated and focused

8. Paperwork Purge

  • Gather paperwork from around the home and review. Recycle/destroy envelopes, leaflets and paperwork you no longer need
  • Create a landing area to intercept paperwork as it enters the home; process, diarise, file or destroy it here to prevent it piling up around the house

9. Finally, adopt a “One-In, One-Out” Rule

  • When a new item is brought into the home, prompt yourself to find an item that is no longer used or loved
  • Keep a bag in the car boot or hallway cupboard for items to donate – when it’s full pop it to your local charity shop to help maintain a clutter-free home

It is possible for busy families to enjoy a clutter-free and cosy home this Autumn. 

Decluttering doesn’t have to be overwhelming. By breaking down the tasks and involving family members, you can transform your living space into a warm and inviting retreat just in time for the colder months. You don’t need to dedicate lots of time, but decluttering in small chunks of time will save you time and energy overall. The key is small, practical steps. 

Which decluttering task will you try first?

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Create a Relaxing Garden Space with These Quick Shed Organising Tips

If your garden is a mess, it’s likely a disorganised shed is the culprit. Try these quick shed organising tips and make space for a relaxing garden.

Imagine this; you walk out into your back garden to an inviting garden space. The calm, neat space is the perfect place to relax, work on your laptop or play with the family. 

The problem is, this might be more like your experience: empty plant pots, last years growth wilting in containers, bikes, furniture and gardening equipment left out and piled up with good intention. You can’t fit anything else in the shed, and you’ll need them again sometime, so things are stacked up.

If your garden is far from a neat and inviting sanctuary, now is the perfect time to tackle it! Whilst the weather is looking dry for a while (hello UK summer!) you can regain control of this wilderness!

Your Shed is the key

If your garden is a mess, it’s likely that your shed is far worse. A shed full of stuff you don’t use is no help whatsoever. 

If you had the space to store the things you do need, and organise them so they are easily accessible, it would be super easy leave your garden a serene oasis of calm.

The key to a calmer garden is your shed.

So when can you carve out some time to work on it? Let’s get that in the diary and get started!

My Top Tips for Regaining Control of your Garden Shed:

Declutter

Empty the contents of your shed onto your garden lawn or patio. I know it’s scary but it’s well worth the effort. You’ll see where you have duplicates, similar items and see the scale of your shed collection. 

This is your opportunity to be ruthless and make space for the things you currently need to store. And if you could borrow or buy cheaply in future, don’t keep it ‘just in case’!

Remove everything you can see that you know you no longer need and dispose of it. Would your neighbours or family use it? Could a charity shop sell it? Does it need to go to the household recycling centre to be recycled or disposed of?

You don’t need to keep:

  • old paint
  • bits of wood or metal that you’ve held onto but never used
  • a vast range of screws and nails
  • attachments for tools, furniture and toys you no longer have
  • bike racks for cars long gone
  • children’s bikes and scooters long grown out of.

All of these items and more can be given away to be used by someone else, recycled or safely disposed of.

Check tools to ensure that it still all works and is needed. Working equipment can be given away. Local sharing groups such as Freecycle are good, and some charity shops take working electricals). Tools that have seen better days can be recycled at your local household recycling centre. 

A handy tip for when you buy tools in future; the store where you make your new purchase will usually take your old equipment for the recycling.

Organise

We want your shed to be organised so that you and your family can access the things that you want, but more importantly they can be put them away easily.

Use the wall space as much as possible. You don’t stay in this space for long so don’t need to worry about feeling overwhelmed by things on walls. Where practical, add shelves and hooks on the walls to enable you to hang tools, equipment, small items of furniture. 

If you have space to hang or rack up your bikes, it’s worth investing in the appropriate racks. Hang an entire bike using a wall mounted rack or prop it using a Klug.

Try to place or hang everything as if it is ‘on display’ in a hardware store. This will make it easy to see what you need whilst maximising storage.

Place the things you use most often (such as bikes and lawn mower) nearer to the door, so that they can be accessed most easily. The things you use less often can be placed nearer to the back, or stored in harder to reach places.

Use small bags in a larger box, jars or a container with small sections, to contain selections of screws, raw plugs, and other small items that you know you will use again in future. Label as needed to make it super easy to get to and find small items you need for DIY.

Get Help

You don’t have to do this work alone. You can rope in the children (make it a game), family or neighbours to support you with this task. 

Read about Three Top Organising Principles here.

And don’t forget I’m here for you. I’ve supported my clients to create calmer, more organised sheds, garages and outside spaces and can help you too. Find out more about my services here.

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Boost Your Organising Motivation: 3 Must-Read Books

How can you support yourself when you feel stuck, unmotivated or struggle to get started with your organising challenges?

When I’m struggling with motivation to complete a project or feel overwhelmed by all the things on my to do list, I love to open my mind to creative ideas, listen to another perspective or learn something new.

There are so many ways to access ideas. I love to listen to an audiobook (perfect when I’m driving or doing jobs around the house); watch a film; or read inspiring content online. 

It can really galvanise you into action when you hear amazing, creative and inspiring stories, see what others have achieved, or learn a new idea that you can try out for yourself.

Lately, I’ve explored some books that have inspired me and I think you’ll enjoy them too. 

These resources can help you develop new habits, support better self-talk and help you to think differently about the things you spend your money on.

Small Talk

In this second book by Richard and Roxanne Pink, they talk about their own experiences of self-talk and that of their ADHD community. They highlight the negative beliefs and lies ADHD people tell themselves and offer ideas for how to overcome limiting beliefs, or support others to do so. 

This book has really helped me better understand the impact of self-talk on well-being and behaviour and in particular for people with ADHD. It shares strategies that have helped Roxanne transform her self-talk and how we can better support loved-ones to do the same.

People often say to me that they are ‘not an organised person’ or ‘just awful at organising’. I always find it’s not the case and they have strengths that they don’t recognise. I’m sure this book will help me better understand and support their experience.

Atomic Habits

I love this book by the award-winning author, James Clear. In it, he considers how to establish the habits that we want using his atoms model. He says it’s too difficult to make big changes. Instead we should concentrate on creating tiny habits that build and have a compound effect.

This thinking is similar to my approach when I work with clients who want to become better organised. It can be difficult to sustain big changes. It may be better to make adjustments to the way the home is organised or tweak routines, so that it feels natural and easier to manage.

James also recently created the Atoms app, available on IOS and Android. It enables you to set tiny goals and track progress as you create your habit. 

The No Spend Year

Intrigued by the title of this book – I dived into it on my kindle. 

Once I started reading it I was instantly captivated by the challenge to not spend money on anything, other than absolute essentials, for an entire year. 

I like to work out how to enjoy a camping trip whilst taking as little as possible with us, so know how a challenge like this has the potential to get creative juices going. Though I’m not sure I would go to the same extreme, it’s useful to reflect on how much we really don’t need in our daily lives to be happy.

What have you been reading lately that you’ve loved or found inspiring? Do let me know on Instagram or Facebook – search or tag me @organisedwell.

And if you want to see what Apps I use to help me be organised – read my blog Discover how the Apps I love could make you better organised

Here’s How I Organise my Home for Maximum Laziness

I’m always trying out new things to make my household feel better organised, it’s so satisfying. I know life feels better when we can quickly regain control of the house; find what we want, when we need it and feel prepared for our day. But it turns out, I’m also organising our home for maximum laziness!

It’s a smart strategy!

“Conventional wisdom holds that motivation is the key to habit change. Maybe if you really wanted it, you’d actually do it. But the truth is, our real motivation is to be lazy and to do what is convenient. And despite what the latest productivity best seller will tell you, this is a smart strategy, not a dumb one.” – James Clear, Atomic Habits Archives

It’s nice to hear that my efforts are actually part of a smart strategy! It does make sense that we choose the path of least resistance. Afterall, if you are better organised, it takes less effort and time to maintain, manage and move items to clean and find things. Things you need appear or arrive when you need them, and you can put less effort into doing regular tasks. It’s more efficient.

Over the years we’ve made improvements that have really made a difference to our lives. Some required new furniture or items, which we’ve bought when replacing things. But most are little tweaks or different ways of doing things.

I get a lot of satisfaction from making improvements or coming up with ways to save time, energy or money. But, I also like to have more time to do fun things and to relax together!

32 Things this Professional Organiser Does to Make Life Easier

Below you’ll find some of the things I’ve put in place as part of my strategy!

Meal prep

  1. I peel and prepare school vegetables in bulk at the beginning of the week. I store it in containers in the fridge ready to drop into school packed lunches each day
  2. Make up sandwiches, rolls, wraps and bagels in bulk for packed lunches. Freeze them and remove as many as needed each morning to make up lunch. They’ll defrost by lunch (this works great for most fillings apart from mayo)
  3. Store ingredients and equipment that you often use together (e.g. baking ingredients and equipment) near to each other. It’ll be super easy to tidy as you go or at the end of the task
  4. We use a white board velcro’d inside a kitchen cupboard and every Saturday create a meal plan and shopping list. We plan with ingredients from the cupboards and fridge, and may shop for a few additional fresh bits if needed. This way we don’t need to come up with a meal each night when we’re hungry!
  5. When cooking meals, cook more than you need and freeze the excess for an easy meal another day. Or turn the cooked ingredients into another dish to speed up meal prep later that week
  6. We jot a list on the white board or use our Smart Speaker to note foods as they run out. I then transfer them to my phone list when I go food shopping

Laundry

  1. Hang clean washing on coat hangers to dry to reduce the need for ironing
  2. Schedule days for certain laundry tasks – strip beds Sunday night, change towels Monday morning
  3. We have dedicated days for wash loads so we don’t have to think about it. Towels Mondays, Light load Tuesdays, Uniform Fridays
  4. Wash days are scheduled to allow sufficient drying time between loads. Also to ensure that items are clean when needed (e.g. PE kit or clean towels). These consequences help keep us on track!
  5. We keep washing and dishwasher tablets in clear drawers so the household can easily see where to grab them from. I can also easily see when we are running low
  6. Only have 2 sets of towels for each family member (plus a set for guests) and 2-3 sets of bed linen for each bed. This ensures we have one set out and one in the laundry cycle
  7. Each family member has a location for their towels and their own colour face clothes, so they don’t get mixed up

Life Admin

  1. Create a post management zone close to the letter box. We have a magazine rack for ‘Action Items’ and Filing. The recycling bin and shredder are stored close by so we can quickly tackle post when it arrives
  2. Only have rubbish and recycling bins in key rooms (e.g. kitchen, bathrooms, teens bedroom) so that we have less to empty
  3. We have recycling and contact lens bins in the bathroom so that it’s easy to separate recycling
  4. When I’m pushed for time, I use Royal Mail door step collection for returns. You can set-up safe place instructions for when you’re out too
  5. I use a password manager because I never remember passwords. I can also securely share them with my hubby as needed
  6. I use an online calendar that I can access on my phone and laptop to keep track of everything and share my diary with family members
  7. I schedule as much as possible in my diary as I think of it. I even add details, packing notes and travel instructions so that I don’t need to hold things in my head. (For more ideas on how to manage your paperwork read Banish Your Paper Clutter in 5 Easy Steps)

Storage

  1. We store healthy snacks in an easy to reach drawer with small containers to make it easy to eat healthily. This was great when my daughter was young as she could help herself to a portion
  2. I store things close to where we use them – e.g. my hair dryer is stored in the bottom drawer close to where I sit to dry it
  3. We have clear square containers for pasta so that I don’t have to wrestle half-open bags
  4. We only keep the appliances that we use daily on the counter – toaster, coffee machine, milk frother. This makes it easy to clean and tidy
  5. I have simplified cupboards so that ingredients needed for common recipes are together. Tea and coffee are in a clear container in the cupboard above the kettle 
  6. Bedding sets are all folded into a pillow case to enable anyone of the family to easily find a full set to make a bed

Automation

  1. Use a delivery service to receive milk and other products on repeat
  2. Have other foods you use regularly delivered e.g. a veg box, recurring coffee pod order
  3. Use subscription services for cleaning products, toilet paper and other products you use regularly (such as SMOL, Who Gives a Crap, etc). We also create a recurring order so that we always have products when we need them
  4. Set-up direct debits to pay regular bills and save admin time
  5. Use a bank that enables you to create pots to help you budget for household costs. You can then see what is left for other purchases
  6. Shop online for groceries and use the Favourites or previous order function to help you quickly shop for regulars. You’ll able to focus on what’s on your shopping list rather than being distracted by ‘bargain’ offers

What could you do?

How do you organise things to make it super easy for your household and maximise your laziness? What could you do to improve?

Need some help with your organising strategy?

I began helping others to get better organised in 2018 because I wanted to share the benefits I’d discovered during my own organising journey. I love to help my clients declutter and organise their possessions, digital world and To Do lists so that they feel better organised and can create calmer homes and lives. Find out more about my services here.